感叹~

如果说秋天是恋爱的好季节~
那难道冬天是失恋的季节么？
秋天时，收到了身边朋友一个个开始谈恋爱的消息……
我放完寒假回来，却接二连三的收到身边朋友分手的消息……
好些都是在我回马来西亚之前，还很甜很让人羡慕的……
所以对我来说打击有点大……
世事难料，在恋爱初期，男生什么都能够答应什么事都可以迁就……
久了就对于另一半的要求不再重视也不再尊重……
坏的不期然只有男生……
恋爱了7年都快步入婚姻了，女生却只抛下一句没有信心而就这样提了分手……
岁月无法保证婚姻，承诺更无法保证永远~
感情这回事，可以坚强得无懈可击，也可以脆弱得不堪一击~

无论如何，人始终是有感情的动物，总不可能一个人过一辈子吧~~
遇上了对的人，牢牢牵着彼此的手，坚定的一起走过风风雨雨吧~
希望我身边的朋友都幸福~♥

鱼~我无法告诉你现在那个他是不是对的人，因为只有你自己才晓得~~
但是不要再给自己负担，不要在一直钻牛角尖~~
我能做的，也就只有听你倾诉给与少少的意见~~
其余的还是要你们俩自己好好的沟通~~
距离本身就是个必须要跨越的坎，沟通真的很重要……
该说的都要说，不要自己一个人难过着~
加油！！

打达~或许你的心理障碍有些难跨越~~
但是有些事情还是留待观察吧~~
如果他真的是个不错的人，为啥不给他个机会呢 =)
我们永远都不会知道明天的事，还没尝试怎么就知道不行呢~
无论如何适不适合终究只有你自己知道，所以你自己好好的斟酌吧~~
你打达我永远会给你最大的支持~♥
重要的，一定要幸福 ^^

The Little Cuties ^^

ok~~we've got plenty of kids in our family now!!!
cousins had got married and so during CNY granny's house is filled with laughter and the kids' grannies were busy babysitting while mum is drooling beside XD kekeke~~

XinLing is the most obedient of all..
she had learnt to behave herself well and never ask for anything...
she is the one who wont go fighting for toys with others...
bcoz her dad abandoned her and her mum while she's just an infant...
so she had learned to be a good girl so that she will not bring trouble to others...
i brought her some hairband+hair pins+stationery, and she loved them so so much.
sometimes the truth just hurts...
she's only 4, and being the eldest among the little ones, she is the one who knows how to take care of others...
when others are playing with their fancy toys, she can just watch or join upon permission T-T
this poor auntie shall save money and buy more toys for u next time yea~~~~!!!

Now this little fella is cute~~!!! Ian is also a little tiger like me ^^
he's superactive, and dances to all the CNY songs....
and when uncle tried to turn it off as it's time to go home...he'll just hit uncle and show his sad face XD
he still cannot talk, but he expresses himself well through all sorts of facial expressions~~
see, all the grannies were so happy watching him~kekeke~~

and when his granny stopped him from doing something, he gets angry and goes like this!!!

"fan min" XD 

Now these are the little techie geeks XD KePeng and Jarold were busy with iPad and Nintendo DS while their aunt is busy watching the TV~~kekekekeke
and the grannies and grandpas were outside busy preparing the offering and burning the kimjuas~~
KePeng is 8 while Jarold is 2...
So when the firecrackers went off outside, KePeng knows well to take care of the little one...
If u forget to close his ears for him, he'll just freeze and stare at u with puppy eyes, until u do so XD
after that, he'll just carry on with his games and couldn't careless bout what is going on~~

I love kids, LOTZZZZZ~~~~!!!!!!!! but they only see me once a year T_____T
seriously doubt that they will still remember me the next time they see me...
sad...miss the lil ones muchie ♥

蟹与蝎 --- 水の恋

巨蟹是十二星座中用情最深的星座；
天蝎是十二星座中最专一的星座；
两个被标榜为“天生一对”，与生俱来的心灵相通，又同样敏感细腻的星座，
碰在一起结局会是如何呢？

之前的所有不确定与猜测都在你牵起我手的那一刻起得到了答案……
原先的不确定与疑惑也被你迟来的告白所融化……

原谅我一开始的动摇与不安，毕竟去年短短一年里我两次经历了毕生最低潮的时刻……
那种被高高举起以后再被狠狠摔下，
那种谁在你伤口就快愈合时假意为你敷药尔后再冷酷的把伤口重新撕裂的绞心彻骨之痛，
我真的没有勇气相信自己还可以熬得过~
人老了，心累了，伤不起了……

但你却用你的耐心、温柔和体贴，告诉我我还是值得幸福、值得被爱的 =)
baby谢谢你 ♥
从好朋友到情人，我想最大的好处就是互相的理解吧？
就算身份上有了些许变化，我还是希望我们可以为彼此保留好朋友这个位置~^^
虽然我很爱欺负你，但那都是男友的特有待遇 *bleh*
虽然有时你真的像个妈妈一样唠叨长气（巨蟹特性！），但那也都只是因为你的在乎所以让我觉得窝心 =)
我不要求你给我任何的承诺，因为我可以感受得到你行动里的所有真心~
而且对于天蝎而言，无法兑现的诺言只不过是不能妥协的一种谎言……
期待着可以再次窝进你怀里的那天 ♥ bi我想你了……